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On the tumblr ‘Trans Men of Grindr’ users post screenshots of conversations on gay apps to show some of the insensitive, unsupportive and downright hostile comments other users send to them spontaneously.
It’s not a purely LGBT problem: trans users on Tinder have also spoken out about their problems--both signs that a larger education of what it is to be trans is needed to prevent users becoming Wikipedia pages rather than fully sexual and individual beings.
As a man who has dated using apps himself, he crafted a manifesto, and a code of conduct that he hopes creates a respectful environment.“I think for trans men who are dating every time they hook up they have another coming out,” Sandler said.
He recounted to me one user’s feedback of a date with a trans user who had not made his situation clear on his profile.
‘Leapolitan’ said there was one way that apps could improve her experience: “Come up with a term for men who date/love transwomen.”Grindr’s Simkhai says, “We started with 12 (tribes). We certainly don’t want to make it an infinite amount of options.” He believes that Grindr is meant to be a safe space, but not necessarily a community: “I’m a big believer in having the community regulate itself.” (However, there is a code of conduct for Grindr’s users.)Johnny Skandros, founder of Scruff, said Scruff’s ‘communities’ function was one they were asked to create by users, “particularly trans members who wanted to meet trans people.”Scruff believes that sex is not the primary concern of users.
I am disappointed that you would post an article like this based on what looks like an anecdotal and inaccurate report from one user.”Carl Sandler, who founded Mister in 2012, previously founded and worked at “Mister aspires to be something closer to a lifestyle brand that incorporates both dating and sex and interests and hopefully different communities,” he said.“Not everybody needs to want to hook up with someone who’s trans.Allegations of transphobia are not new in the world of gay online dating.In 2011 LGBT media outlet Queerty took the app to task for allegedly deleting accounts that made reference to being trans.